Guys are there for you. They don’t talk shit about you and they don’t start useless drama with you. Other people may think “oh she’s sucha slut she always hangs out with guys”, but no. That doesn’t make you a slut, it’s because you’d rather be around people who are straight up with you rather than fake bitches. And they’ve rather spend their time having fun instead of wasting time gossiping and talking shit.
Relationships do not get easier. Every day is a struggle. Every day is a battle. It doesn`t get easier with time. In fact, it gets harder. The secret is finding someone who`s willing to be weak and strong with you at the same time. The secret is finding someone who`s willing to work with you and who will push you, challenge you, make it harder for you to leave. The beauty is in the struggle.